MY 7 STEP PROGRAM TO PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT AND SELF-IMPROVEMENT
For some time now, I have noticed that many people seem to be losing their self-esteem. Moreover, they do not seem to know how to regain the upper hand. That’s why I’ve decided to offer these few practical suggestions to increase personal development and self-improvement so that you can become the best version of yourself.
First, before I begin, I’d like to say a few words. Do you agree with me that we can no longer count the number of times we’ve read or heard about these star marriages that fail, so to speak, left and right. Although I don’t care (and personally I really don’t care!). Nevertheless, it still seems strange to me how society sees Hollywood stars as flawless people, living the dream life of wealth and glamour. However, I hope that today with all the scandals that have erupted lately, we will be able to stop having our heads in the clouds and face reality. Personally, I think we all need to stop being blinded by the Hollywood veil… Well that said, I can get back to the central topic of this article, which is personal development and self-improvement!
Now, what does it take to become the best version of ourselves? To answer it I will present the seven steps I used to achieve it. Then, if you take the time to think about them and put them into practice, I sincerely believe that you will succeed in improving yourself within 7 days. So, if you are interested, I invite you to read on, because I’m about to give you my personal development tips on self-improvement
7 steps for personal development and self-improvement in 7 days
So, of course, there are many ways to lose the proper sense of self-esteem, despite the futility of the situation. But no matter what happens, you must always remember that what’s important is that we should all strive not to lose our own sense of being.
1. Define your objective
Are you wandering through life with little meaning? Do you want to find happiness, well-being, and prosperity? So start by defining the purpose of your life or your mission objective. (I know this is not always easy, but take the time to think about it). In this way, once you have determined it, you will finally have your own compass that will lead you to your inner truth. Because that’s where your full potential lies and your personal development and self-improvement will always come from your inner self.
This may seem difficult at first glance when you see yourself in a dead end. However, there will be always a small loophole to allow you to change events and you can make a huge difference for yourself.
2. Get to know your values
What is most important to you? I now invite you to take notes for yourself. List your five most important values and principles. To give you an example of what I am talking about you could take security, fidelity, honesty, freedom, family, spiritual development, learning, in short, it is your own choice. Then when you set your goals for this year (as mentioned in the first point). Compare your goal with your values. If your goal is not consistent with one of your five highest values, you may want to consider changing it or at least modify it.
Finding your five values should not deter you, but rather encourage you to do more than you can dream of. Once you have established your values you will see your objectives from a different angle and this will greatly help you to better determine the route you wish to take during the year.
3. Do you know your needs?
Unmet needs can deprive you of an authentic way of life. That’s why we all have to take care of ourselves. What are your needs? Do you feel the need to be recognized, to be always right, to be in control, to be appreciated and loved? There are so many people who have lived their lives without even realizing even one of their dreams and most find themselves stressed or even depressed. So now you should list your four basic needs and try to meet them before it’s too late! However, your needs will have to match your values and goals. Try to connect your goals, values and needs.
4. Mastering your passions
Now, do you know who you are and what you really enjoy in life? For hindrances like doubt and lack of will only harm you, but will not make you fail to become the best version of yourself that you all should be. Express yourself, talk about your passion and honor the individuals who finally inspired you to become the person you want to be. However, if there is one point I must emphasize, it is not to try to imitate someone. Discover yourself and always remain authentic no matter what others may say.
5. Go from the inside to the outside
Increase your inner awareness of your wisdom by meditating regularly in complete silence. Do it outside and try to commune with nature and be one with it. Breathe deeply to calm your distracted mind. For most city dwellers, it is difficult to find the peace and quiet we desire, even in your own home. In that case, I suggest you sit in a dimly lit room and play classical music. There will be sound, yes, but the music will soothe you and cut out the city’s ambient sounds. That said, being in the wild will be always the best option.
6. Respect your strengths
What are your strong and positive aspect? What are your special gifts? List at least three, if you are stuck, ask your closest friends, they may be able to help you identify them. For example, Are you resourceful, creative, spiritual, have good hands, are you intellectual? In short, find ways to express your authentic inner self through your strengths. You can greatly improve your self-confidence when you share what you know with others using your strengths.
7. Helping and serving others
When we live authentically, it becomes easy to see that we develop a kind of feeling of being interconnected. For when you are authentic, live by your purpose and give your talents to the surrounding society. You share in service what you have really come to share with others. And it’s your mind, your pure essence. The benefits of sharing your gift with your loved ones is indeed very rewarding. Then even more so if it is the eyes of a stranger who can appreciate what you have offered them.
Now give it a try and start your own personal development and self-improvement program
Self-improvement and increasing self-esteem is indeed a worthwhile kind of work. Nor should it be always within the confines of an office building, or perhaps in the four corners of your own home. The difference is in ourselves and only we know how much we want to change for the better. So just stop wanting to and do what it takes to finally reveal yourself as the best version of yourself!
Leave me your comments they are always appreciated and it will be a huge pleasure for me to answer you quickly. On that note, take care of yourself and let the sun shine on your life!